Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Happy Birthday Jim!

Tomorrow will be 9 years to the day that I met Jim. Which means today is his birthday! 

Happy Birthday Jim!


We love you and we are always excited to see you.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Outrage

I am at work this morning missing Lilly's soccer game.

Jim is with the kids at the game.

My friend just texted me this picture from the soccer field:




My baby sitting in a Ohio State chair! The outrage!  See what happens when I am not there to supervise??

Don't worry I have some pictures of Jack sitting on the nittany lion that I will post as soon as I get home.

(I strongly dislike Ohio State as a loyal Penn State Alumni and fan).

Thursday, August 25, 2011

As soon as Lilly left for school today Jack grabbed her cowboy hat and tried to ride off into the sunset (pouring rain). Luckily the quad ran into the fence on our porch and he did not get very far.

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Update

Lilly came home from school with some serious attitude. I sent off my sweet little 5 year old to kindergarten and she came back a rotten school child. We will be working on the sass here at home. Not to mention the bus was 25 minutes late and when she finally did get home she wouldn't talk to me very much. I swear a teenager came home in my five year olds body.

Lilly did tell me that she has a set of twins in her class who turned five today. She said "can you believe there were four year olds at kindergarten?" Technically she was wrong because they are five today. She also told me that the twins came to school in a limo. She said "they sat sideways and had drinks, I know it was a limo." She said they got to come to school in a limo for their birthday. Crazy!! I am waiting to confirm the rumor.

We are all going to bed early tonight. In Lilly's prayer tonight she prayed that Jack and mommy could find something to do tomorrow. Too funny.

The first day of Kindergarten!!

Today is the first day of school.  I think we were all a little nervous this morning.  Everyone was awake by 6:15, even Jack seemed to sense the excitement.
Lilly and I cuddled in bed for a little while before she got up and got herself ready.

I had all sorts of good intentions to pack her lunch the night before, but I just didn't.  I think I might be a same day packer, we'll see.


Lilly had her breakfast of choice, toaster struedels, and wore her outfit of choice.  She got herself dressed, brushed her teeth, and was pretty happy (a little nervous).  I asked her to make her bed and she started to whine, so I let that one slide today.


We had plenty of time to take pictures, and she actually ate her entire breakfast.  The morning went much better than I imagined.







We all walked Lilly to the bus.  I brought the stroller and Lilly asked to ride in the stroller part of the way.  She then got out to walk.




I had her give me a hug and a kiss before the bus came to avoid any meltdowns (on my part).

Luckily we have a good group of kids at our bus stop and they were all excited to have Lilly, the only kindergartener at her stop.



The bus was right on time, 7:26 (so early!!).

As soon as the bus pulled up Parker grabbed Lilly by the hand and dragged her on the bus.  Cara was right behind her and helped push her on.  It all happened so fast she didn't have a chance to turn around and wave.  I started crying, but only a little.  I ran around the bus to find her in a window seat sitting with Parker and Cara.  She smiled and waved as the bus drove off.



Then I cried, but I couldn't cry that much because there were a lot of parents there.  My pride held it together.

Jack and I are home figuring out what to do with ourselves.  We will probably make some cookies for Lilly and wait to hear all about her first day.

Monday

This past Monday was kindergarten orientation day.  We also got our dentist appointments in and went to the grocery store to get all the back to school lunch essentials.

Lilly is attending the brand new primary school in our town.  They shut down three old elementary schools and combined all the kids from those schools into one big school.  It is grades K-2 and there are 600 students this year!

The school is so new that the gym/cafeteria floor isn't ready to be used this week.  Luckily the rest of the school is ready and we got to tour the building Monday night.


We saw Lilly's classroom and met with her teacher, Mrs. Perruquet.  Mrs. Perruquet is a friend of mine and I requested her to be Lilly's teacher.  I am so happy that she is, she is fantastic!




Parents are not allowed in the school on the first day.  Even if you drive your child to school a teacher or volunteer meets you at the car, opens the door, and takes them to their classroom. Safety and security is the reasoning.  I think it is also to keep hysterical moms at bay. 

(Here is Lilly checking out the view from the stairwell at school)


After I got Lilly to bed that night I sobbed for a few hours. I got it all out of my system.  It was the kind of hysterics that only dogs could hear.  I cried because my baby is getting older; because I am getting older; because Jack doesn't talk to me that much when Lilly isn't around; because my life is not how I imagined it.  I imagined that I would have more children at home when Lilly left me for school. 

Jack and I have lots of plans to stay busy and we are going to enjoy the few years he has left before he leaves me as well.

A bit dramatic? Perhaps, but I am nothing if not a bit dramatic.

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Moving forward.

My week ended on Friday with me in the emergency room for the day followed by a D&C. Luckily Jim was able to cancel meetings to spend the day with me at the hospital. Hopefully, this miscarriage can now be over and we can move on. We have had wonderful support and help from friends and family. This Sunday I find myself grateful for the help and the timing of things. Jim starts classes tomorrow and Lilly starts school on Wednesday. If I had to be in the hospital, last Friday was the perfect day for it. I took the weekend to recover and I am mostly ready to take care of my family again as Jim and Lilly head back to school.

Lilly in kindergarten and Jim in 19th grade (as he puts it). They both have really long days. As my mom says, I need to have clean clothes in the drawer, food in the fridge, and everything ready the night before. Lilly gets on the bus at 7:26, so early!! She gets off the bus at 3:19, so late!!

We got in a few trips to knoebels this past week and a few other fun outings to celebrate the last week of summer.

So, ready or not school, here we come!

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