Thursday, November 17, 2011

Getting older

I will be saying "I can't believe my children are (insert age)" for the rest of my life. 

I started saying it when Lilly was a baby and I haven't stopped.

Today Lilly lost her third tooth and I had a parent/teacher conference for report card time.


I can't believe I have a child who is old enough to lose teeth, take the bus to school, actually go to school, read, write, and receive a report card.

I sat through the whole conference dumbfounded that I was the parent in the situation.  The teacher was telling me where my child fell in Aptitude tests and where her reading, writing, and math skills were.  I didn't even know what to do with the information.

I think I slouched for the whole meeting and didn't use real words. Mostly mumbled "mmkay" and "uh-huh."  Luckily the teacher is my friend and this was not a first impression kind of a deal.

She told me wonderful things about Lilly and even said that Jim and I had given her a great foundation. She told me Lilly was above the standards for most of her work.   I didn't say anything.

She hugged me at the end. I think she knew I was having one of those "I can't believe I am a mother of a Kindergartner" type of days.

3 comments:

Pat said...

Not a surprise that Lilly is doing well.

The "mother of a ___-year-old" never leaves you. I can't believe how old MY kids are!

Katie said...

I have a friend (our age) who once complained to her mom that she was getting wrinkles and her mom said, "Nothing makes you feel older than your daughter getting wrinkles!"

I LOVE teacher conferences- I don't know if they're just trying to flatter you or what, but I always come away thinking that maybe I'm not totally screwing my kids up after all:).

Carla said...

I'm still in the I can't believe I'm married and old enough to have a child. It'll be funny to watch as the I can't believe I have a kid that's (blank) years old sets in too!

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